Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I don't want to go to my family doctor. Where can I get anonymous HIV testing?

A: The important thing to know when you are thinking about testing, is whether you want CONFIDENTIAL testing, or ANONYMOUS testing. To find out more, click here.

To get tested anonymously in Toronto, you can go to any of these centers. In other cities, call sexual health phone lines or a local AIDS organization. Remember, there is a big difference between anonymous and confidential testing!

Finally, know that it is your right to determine who finds out your HIV status. Schools, workplaces, friends, and family don't have to right to know unless you want them to.

Q: How do I ask my partner if they have STI's or HIV/AIDS?

A: The best option you have in protecting yourself is to ALWAYS practice safer-sex with ANY partner. It's risky to rely on your partner(s) telling you about their health, because often, they don't know what they have themselves.

Also, keep in mind how difficult it is to tell someone you like that you have a certain infection or condition. So, they may not feel comfortable or courageous enough to tell you even if they know!

Q: I think I might have contracted HIV. What do I do next?

A: Recall as accurately as possible the day or week you think you were exposed to HIV. Then, go for an HIV antibody test after 14 weeks of initial exposure. If you go for your test any earlier than 14 weeks, the result may not be accurate.

In the meantime, try to lower your risks of being exposed again by practicing safer sex, using latex barriers, and not sharing needles if you want to shoot up drugs.

Q: Where can I get condoms?

A: You can buy condoms at most drug stores (like Shopper's Drug Mart) and sex-stores (like the Condom Shack). Free condoms are available at ACAS and in many other sexual-heath organizations such as The House Community Centre for Youth. Condoms are also available on the internet at sites such as The Official Condom Directory (see links and resources).

Are you too young to buy condoms? NO! There is no age restriction on buying or having condoms. It may be uncomfortable for you to buy condoms in a store whose staff are giving you a hard time though. So, keep in mind the option of getting it from AIDS organizations, or health clinics, etc.

Condoms come in different thickness, sizes, and styles. It's best to try out different brands and types until you find one that fits the best. To find out all about how to use a condom the right way, go here.